My session with Kate was my first experience of Tantric Massage, and Tantra in general. We spent some time talking at first, Kate explained what the session would involve and how I might feel, and she is a compassionate listener, allowing me to open up and talk frankly about issues around sex, love, emotions, sexual performance that I had not addressed or found a forum to discuss for a long time. Being able to speak these thoughts out loud and share them with a woman, without any agenda, was a real privilege and allowed me to feel a very strong emotional and physical trust with her.
Sexual desire and emotional connection, which were so important to me in my 20s, had become totally neglected after 10 years of marriage and kids. It felt like a really important step to take the time for myself and find those feelings again.
I imagine that this is a fairly common experience for men (and women), it is one of the quiet taboos in a relationship, and so being able to talk and physically express these feelings openly was a huge release.
Kate has a very strong physical empathy that made the massage an intense and extraordinary range of sensations, never rushed, in fact I completely lost track of time. With me she identified the area of my chest around my heart as an important centre of feeling and I can still feel the sensation and warm feeling around my heart a week later.
Thank you for being so generous with your time and spirit.