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The Female Orgasm – It’s Not Just a Case of Stimulation and Positions

Female orgasm is for the most part a taboo term, it is not something that is seen fit to discuss in public and certainly not a topic that is brought up over dinner. The topic of female orgasm can cause a degree of stress and awkwardness even between lovers and this is perhaps because orgasm is largely misunderstood.

The first thing to understand is that there are many kinds of orgasms; and most of them have nothing to do with sex. Indeed the term orgasm means the  release of energy and the great news for women is that women hold more orgasmic potential then men do. Indeed because women are more attuned with their emotions they actually hold greater potential for being orgasmic.

What many women don’t realise is that you can actually experience more than one type of orgasm through Tantra.  In Tantra the emphasis of the orgasm is not about sexual gratification, but about releasing negative emotions such as shame, guilt and rejection and embracing positive, energizing sexual energy.  In short in Tantra takes the orgasm beyond just the physical.

The state of orgasm is also a state of very high energy and it will energize the whole body if the energy is harnessed correctly and the effects of the revitalisation from sexual energy can last for hours or even days—this energy is known as sexual energy, chi energy or life force energy and it is the energy that we all innately have that comes from inside.

An orgasm can revitalize mind, body and soul and as they create a sense of harmony and relaxation in the body they are definitely good for us. Not only can they help with the stress levels but they also trigger the release of hormones including serotonin, dopamine and oxotocin which create feelings of happiness.

Tantric methods aren’t about one quick orgasm and are certainly not about the ego or achieving quick, sexual gratification. Once you’ve learned to engage your mind and body and focus on pleasure and moving energy, you’ll be able achieve inner radiance and use sexual energy to revitalize every cell in your body at will.

The key to orgasm is not held in technique or positions, but in recognising that the key to orgasm is the release of negative emotions so that the sexual energy can flow freely through your body without encountering blocks. Only with the release of negative emotions can you become truly orgasmic and experience orgasm beyond a genital form.

Every woman is capable of feeling multiple waves of orgasm throughout her entire body. She may feel an orgasm at clitoral level, or through the breasts and nipples, similarly she may experience orgasm in her hands or any part of her body.

Becoming orgasmic helps you to think more positive thoughts of yourself and others and project confidence. This in turn harnessing this sexual energy makes you vibrant and attractive. It will attract people and positive experiences and life can become truly orgasmic.

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I’m Mal Weeraratne – Certified Tantra Educator teaching intimacy; Tantra and all forms of sacred sensuality to facilitate journeys into love, intimacy, and sacred sexuality as well as personal transformation leading to spirituality. My teachings can help both men and women to overcome sexual problems, regain feminine empowerment and male consciousness and in all areas of sexuality and female embodiment.

In the past my clients came to me for many reasons, some came to explore aspects of the sexuality, whilst others wanted to explore touch; sensuality or explore their boundaries. Whilst others want to become more sexually empowered or just to start living fully within their own bodies or to overcome fears and inhibitions through releasing their past trauma

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