Can a vibrator be the answer?

During the 1900’s the usage of vibrator was classified as a medical device to treat sexual dysfunctions called “Congestion of the genitalia” and “Female hysteria”.

Before the invention of vibrator physicians used to give “Vaginal massage” to treat women for such illnesses by manually stimulating with their fingers. Especially in Western countries this became the most popular treatment because of “Female hysteria” became the most frequently diagnosed disease by the mid-19^th century.

Since the vibrator was introduced in 1880, doctors began using it to have a women reach orgasm quickly with less effort. As women started learning about this method, they began to use it to sexually stimulate themselves.

Advantages and Disadvantages of using a vibrator

In Western countries such as the United States and United Kingdom, more than 50 percent of women are using vibrators as a self pleasure according to surveys. Some studies found that women who used vibrators had a better sex life and overall sexual functioning. There are a few advantages of using vibrator below:

• Enhanced sexual performance: Vibrators for women can allow one to perform sexual acts that may be difficult to sustain for long periods of time. Vibrator use allows man to stimulate her quickly in the beginning to the point of orgasm so that she is already sated before he climaxes, or after he does. This way she will always feel equally satisfied.
• Decreased effort and cramping: Sex often requires precarious positions and repetitive motion that can cause major fatigue in your fingers, hands, neck, back, legs or mouth. Vibrators for women allow continued pleasuring with less work and effort.
• Enhanced Sexual Interest: Ladies who use vibrators expertise a better interest in sex as they are wanting to more experiment with and explore their bodies. Therefore, they become more self-confident in relationships.
• Quicker Orgasms: The range of toys and also the ability to use them with efficiency lead ladies to succeed in orgasms a lot more quickly.
• Good health: Orgasms release stress and tension, and that’s a scientifically proven fact. They can be a pleasant way to start the day or a great remedy for a sleepless night.

Despite the advantages, there are some disadvantages as well:

• Sexually Transmitted Diseases: Sharing vibrators will cause the infection of STDs through the exchange of c fluid and direct tissue layer contact.
• Toxic Material: Vibratorsare often fabricated from materials which will contain toxins that aren’t healthy for your body. Once using sex toys, inquire regarding the materials they use.
• Vaginal Infections:Laundry your sex toys totally after and/or before every use is crucial to maintaining the health of your privates. Check with the manufacturer’s improvement directions and ensure your toys are clean before using them.
• Decreased satisfaction from partner: Vibrators cause a very gradual desensitization of the nerve endings which over time can leave some women either struggling to, or unable to reach orgasm with a partner as well as making them need to keep getting more extreme vibrators to create the same level of sensation over a period of time.
• Expanded vaginal size: If used internally rather than purely for clitoral stimulation and dependant on the size they also cause a more rapid increase in vaginal size.

Is there any better option than using a vibrator?

First of all we need to understand the reasons for the need to use a vibrator to achieve an orgasm.

Orgasm is a positive wave of energy that gets blocked with negative stagnant emotions embedded in the deep cellular memory in the pelvic basin. Negative emotions are there as a result of past past negative events with what has happened to you, or others, or what you have seen or heard or due to upbringing, religious, cultural and other belief systems. These negative emotions reduce the orgasmic capacity of a woman making the yoni (vagina) go numb, emotional or painful and eventually shutting down with reduced sensitivity.

Lack of sensitive needs higher stimulation to achieve pleasure and orgasms. Higher stimulations don’t disperse the negative emotions, but override the emotions. This forceful orgasms makes the one to get even more desensitized, needing higher stimulations.

Tantric Journey method is to increase sensitivity in the yoni by dispersing negative emotions from the body through yoni massages and releasing Amrita (this is the ancient sanscrit word for female ejaculation). This way yoni becomes more positive and sensitive to touch and being present with the yoni with no movement a woman can experience full body multi orgasms with no stimulation.

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